Terms of Use

Last updated October 8, 2026.

By using the Basics of Love app or basicsoflove.com you agree to these terms.

What this is, and isn't

30 Days & 30 Ways is an educational journal from a relationship coach. It is not therapy, counseling, or medical or legal advice, and it does not create a coaching or therapeutic relationship. If you are in crisis or feel unsafe, contact local emergency services or the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233.

Your account

You sign in with your email. Keep access to it. One invite code pairs exactly two accounts. You may delete your account at any time from the app.

Purchases

The first five days are free. The rest of the journal is a one-time purchase through the App Store or Google Play, and covers you and the one partner you pair with. Refunds are handled by Apple or Google under their policies.

What you write

Your words are yours. Private Thoughts stay on your device. By sending Shared Thoughts you ask us to store and deliver them to your partner; we do not publish or reuse them. Please don't use the app to harass anyone.

Our content

The journal text, audio and video are © Stephen Bickle and licensed to you for personal use. Please don't copy or redistribute them.

No warranty

The app and site are provided "as is". To the extent the law allows, we are not liable for indirect or consequential damages, and our total liability is limited to what you paid us.

Changes and contact

We may update these terms and will note the date above. Questions: stephen@stephenbickle.com.